Prayers for a friend, and some much needed bedrest

Well I have 2 things I wanted to write about.
First, I wanted everyone who has gotten pregnant (with drugs or without) to understand how lucky they actually are. I have a cyber friend named Billy Blue Youkon and she is having a hard time. She has now had 5 missed m/c's and has been told by the fertility clinic there is nothing else they can do. How does someone take that news? She wants so BADLY to be a mother, and someone actually had to look her in the face and tell her, its not going to happen. I wish I could do something to help the hurt she is feeling. She asks how I'm doing, and I feel guilty telling her (even though I am having my own problems, I still got to experience this miracle). They are now taking steps for adoption, and I hope things move fast. Her and her dh have waited long enough!
And Second.....I had my OB appointment yesterday. The OB thinks the bleeding might be the hemmorage getting bigger, and pulled me off work for a week until I have my next u/s. Then we meet with her again to find out what is happening. It sucks because they always have to prepare you for the worst, but when she started talking about surgery, tieing my uterus shut, early delivery and c-sections....I got quite upset. So again I spend this week of rest praying that my bean is ok, and we see all good stuff at the u/s on Monday.