RELAX. Wow that is one word, who's meaning has changed so much for me in the last 26 months. When I used to hear the word, I would think hot tubs, and beaches, and hot summer days.....it used to make me smile.
It was the good advice you could give someone who was upset, or worried. It was what you would try to do on your days off. Its what your cat will do in the sun rays on your rug.
Relax. The word brings tears to my eyes. It makes me want to scream and yell. It makes me hate, and judge people. Its the worst advice you can give. Its what I long for on my days off.
I hate the word...and no matter how far along you are in your ttc journey, if your advice is to just relax.....then you have never been where I have been. Because if it was that easy, the word would never have changed its meaning to me.
So I think it would be a whole lot better to say this: Maybe CJ you weren't ment to be a Mom. Survival of the fittest my dear, and you can not reproduce. You should give up. When you aren't around we talk about you...when you are there we are so careful about what we say, because we dont want to upset you. You get upset easy. We are excited for others pregnancies but pretend that we aren't. Poor girl.
Both are like a slap in the face.....but atleast then you aren't using that horrible word again!
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